It just occurred to me that we write together wonderful stories with our friends and with the people in our lives. These become forever implanted memories. And then we meet new friends. They create new stories that enhance the older ones. And we keep meeting new friends and write even more elaborate stories, tapestries of our ever growing friendships. How do we end up with the most beautiful tapestry of life and #friendship? By keeping our friendships alive with the friends we already have (my bad) and always meet with and talk to new people. Maybe circumstances will part some of us for a while but that’s okay. With these two ingredients, our lives will be the richest in the world. Those who neglect their friendships and stop making new friends are the saddest people in the world. Not to believe in others is not to believe in ourselves.
If you want to play non-communication games by reviewing my profile or receiving a message and not responding, that’s fine with me. There are billions of other women in this world, many of whom are unafraid to communicate directly just as I am. But if you are willing to honestly face your own fears about men and relationships, you have two caring hands and arms in me to hold you and help you cross that scary divide between loneliness and real love. If you’re willing to make mistakes and fall down with me together, I’ll help you up, free of ego, united, never forgetting the love we hold together, to move forward and use our stumble as a lesson to help us cement an even better relationship, my motto always being, “Yes We Can!”
I will help you find courage you’ve really always had to believe in yourself and in your power to fix any relationship problem and move together onward with a willing partner rather than having to go through days to years to a lifetime of heartache only to try to start again at the beginning.
Please don’t be afraid. Life is too exciting an adventure to miss out on. Let me be your shock absorber, your airbags, your seatbelt, your rear and sideview mirrors.
Your power steering. It’s time for you and I to suffer no more and find that thing that will make everything up to this point finally all worth it—and so much more.